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This week was open registration for kindergarten at my son’s preschool–and after much thought, prayer and deliberation, we didn’t enroll him. It marked the first official step toward homeschooling for our family. A few years ago I never imagined I would be a mom that would consider educating my little ones at home (I was really looking forward to all of the free time I thought I would have again!). But, as time has passed, I’ve been blessed to encounter so many *amazing* homeschooling families from our various communities and online among my network of photographer friends. Over time, my mind and my heart have opened to some of the true benefits homeschooling can offer our family and children.

Surprisingly, making the decision for my 4-year-old hasn’t been as difficult as I once imagined. At this point in our military lifestyle, he could potentially be moved to three different schools by first grade (in varying states). That alone was a good enough reason for my husband and I to pause and consider all of his educational options.

Admittedly, I have an idealized version of what the ultimate homeschool experience could be like, but instead am preparing for hard work, trial and error, and some inevitable tough days followed by disappointments. I am excited about the time of preparation ahead and the hours of research I need to complete. We are starting by exploring the varying methods of homeschooling (Classical, Charlotte Mason, Unit Studies, Eclectic, etc,.) and the vast array of kindergarten-level curricula. Our family is also planning to attend our state’s annual homeschooling convention in Richmond, Va. this summer.

Next steps will involve lesson planning, organizing our days/schedule and arranging our classroom area. These are the practical things I can mark off a checklist (which make me oh so happy to do!). Along with them come more intangible items–preparing my mama’s heart for the daunting task ahead, for educating my son while meeting his toddler brother’s and infant sister’s needs as well, and rethinking what my days as a parent may look like from this point forward. Granted, we are not committing to homeschool forever just yet–this year will be an excellent litmus test for how homeschooling fits with our life and our individual children. But, I can’t shake the feeling that this is just the start for us–a much-anticipated beginning to a long and wonderful journey.

I’d love to read about the educational choices you considered and ultimately made for your children. If our homeschooling readers have blogs to share, please post links in the comments. If you are in the middle of your decision-making process, let us know as well. I’ll be sharing more about our personal experience and would certainly enjoy reading about yours…Of course, your words of wisdom and encouragement are always welcomed and appreciated!

Co-editor Stephanie Beaty is a blessed mama of three children and military spouse. After a 10-year career as a professional writer/PR pro she began Lifeography, a modern child + family portrait studio where she focuses on capturing relationships and connections. Although her growing family currently resides in Virginia Beach, Va., home is wherever the Navy sends them. Write to her at hello@lifeographer.com.

About Stephanie


Stephanie is a blessed mama of three (with a baby on the way) and military spouse. After a 10-year career as a professional writer/PR pro she began Lifeography, a modern child + family portrait studio where she focuses on capturing relationships and connections. Although her growing family currently resides in Virginia Beach, Va., home is wherever the Navy sends them.

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  • http://dontletlifepassyouby.blogspot.com elissa

    we are a homeschooling family, abnd we love it! You can read about our adventures in our blog :)

  • http://www.mock-n-bird.blogspot.com Amanda

    Welcome to the homeschool community! We have been homeschooling now for 3 years and I continue to love it! I think the fact that you have realistic expectations is a great way to start. It has definitely taken me a couple years to settle into it and find what works best for my family. You are more than welcome to check out my blog. But I am by no means an expert! :) I am excited for your family and the blessing you are about to experience!

    http://mock-n-bird.blogspot.com/search/label/homeschool

  • http://web.me.com/marawolff/Adoring_Audrey/Blog/Blog.html Mara

    We are also a military family and had the opportunity to attend the VA Homeschooling Conference last year in Richmond, (it’s free for first timers!) It is well worth your time. We have a 2 1/2 year old and a 9 month old and also see the benefits in homeschooling, especially for those of us that move so often. I wish you the best of luck! I am sure you have seen this blog: http://teachmama.com/

  • http://www.susanchilcoat.typepad.com Susan

    Congratulations! I know what a tough decision that is – I just made it in August with my first grader. It took a little figuring out but I know it is the best for our family. Good luck on your new journey!

  • http://teressan.blogspot.com/ TeressaN

    Congrats on making the decision to Homeschool. This is our 4th year of homeschooling and over all I love it. I do not believe I would ever known my children as well as I do if they stayed in public school. Sending you positive thoughts on making your transition into homeschooling.

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  • http://www.overcomingbusy.com Marci@OvercomingBusy

    We are in our 2nd year of homeschooling our 9 year old daughter. Our son is in kindergarten this year. We take it year by year, child by child. Homeschooling has been awesome so far. It is such a rewarding experience!

  • http://www.achallphoto.com/365 Alissa

    Congratulations! We’ve been homeschooling for one year. The first year has many ups and downs.

    A few pieces of advice for you…
    Find a good group for support. If you are a woman of faith, faith based homeschool groups are key. I have found one that I really click with and it has really sustained me.
    A blog for you to check – http://confessionsofahomeschooler.blogspot.com/
    She has lots of things to offer – free or cheap in the age range that you are working with.
    One thing we do that is wonderful at my house – workboxes. We put the worksheet, manipulatives, whatever in the box and the child works his/her way through the boxes. When all the boxes have been completed, the school day is done. It works *great* for my kids.
    We are also members of a Classical Conversations community. I have a 9 year old and 5 year old enrolled there. Truthfully, I wouldn’t join a co-op like that until my child is at least 6. More like 7. For the money that you are paying, it’s not worth it until they are 7. But after that, worth every penny. Just my two cents.
    Best wishes on your journey! May you enjoy most of it and find the resources that bless you and your child(ren).

  • http://rhicarian.wordpress.com/ Michele Kendzie

    Homeschooling is the best! We’re in VA too. I highly recommend the statewide inclusive homeschool organization http://vahomeschoolers.org/ for support getting started, understanding the law, connections with other homeschoolers, and articles on all kinds of homeschooling. They also have a conference (info at that site) that I have attended every year, and I always find it inspiring. This year it is in March in Glen Allen, just outside Richmond.

    I gradually committed to homeschooling beginning when my oldest was 2. When she was 5 I was pretty sure I wanted to homeschool, but I figured school would always be there if we wanted to use it. Every year I became more attached to homeschooling. She’s 9 now, has 6 year old and 3 year old siblings, and I would love to homeschool all the way through high school as long as each child wants to. (My oldest asked about school a few times and finally tried it very briefly in 2nd grade; now she says maybe she’ll try again in high school). The best thing about homeschooling is having lots of time: to spend together as a family, and pursue their interests and work on projects.

    I think my name will be linked to my website, on which I’ve written a lot about homeschooling.

  • http://www.lchphotography.net/blog Leah

    How exciting!!! We started homeschooling Kindergarten this year too. Huge fan of Charlotte Mason!

  • http://mamaktbug.blogspot.com katie

    i’m in exactly (!!!!) same position! while my son won’t start kindergarden for another year, he’s been in preschool two days a week since august. preregistration for his school starts next week and we need to decide if we’re going to enroll him in the pre-k class. i’ve been wanting to homeschool my son but my husband isn’t sharing that decision. i want to show him all the benefits but i’m not sure where to begin.
    i’m glad you were able to make a wise decision for your family. i’m anxious to read how it works out for you guys, especially since our families are set up so similarly (my son is the oldest with toddler and infant sisters). can’t wait to follow you on your journey; i hope it helps us make our own decision…

  • Cindy

    Hi Stephanie!
    We are so happy for your decision to try out homeschooling! We have loved it and as Andrew (now 17) wrote essays for college applications, he said homeschooling kept our busy family close and taught him to be a self-starter, and that it gave him the chance to really pursue what he loved academically. We thought that was encouraging! The beauty of it curriculum-wise is that if something you chose isn’t working, you can just change to something else! We have done that so many times and are so thankful for the wonderful resources out there. Have fun!
    Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl! (I have seen a picture or two on fb.)
    Love, Cindy

  • http://www.jeanphotography.com/theblog Jackie Jean

    This is my first year of homeschooling with my boys and while we have had our moments of frustration, it has been very rewarding and my kids have grown and learned more in the past 6 months then they did while being in school for over a year. Good luck!

  • Kate

    Wow you make homeschooling sound so hard. LOL. I have a baby, toddler and boys in 4th and 6th grade. We’ve been homeschooling since my oldest two were preschool and toddler age. I think u need to remember that this is kind sergartwn and should be a time of fun and exploration. Boxed curriculums aren’t needed. There’s plenty of time for that later. Just read stories, draw, make up stories, explore the outdoors, cook and work on a few art projects. It is much easier and fun for the both of you and you’ll both likely learn a lot more and most importantly have cultivated a love of learning. Try to make homeschooling a way of life not a chore. :)

  • http://www.youcantbeserious.com.au/blog hailey

    I decided to un-school my two daughters nearly 3years ago! Best decision ever!! I am constantly amazed at how wonderful this journey is and all we learn together as a family.

    It is lots to do with educating ourselves and not letting the negative comments of others take hold. We work a lot of weekends so this style of schooling really suits our lifestyle.

    I could go on forever but just wanted to say Yay!! Enjoy and enjoy!! ;)

  • http://Freetolearnanlovinit.blogspot.com Rana

    Welcome to the wonderful world of homeschooling. We had the same experience as your family. We were literally at the school about to sign our twins up for the preschool program and part of our reason for not going through with it was the cost and I really wanted to homeschool them. My husband said do it for a year and see how it goes. Well we are in our 4th year and enjoying it very much.

    We started out with Before Five In A Row which was suggested by a friend who was already using it. The kids loved all the stories and projects it provided. I needed the structure for myself but as the years progressed we have evolved into a more child led, Unschooled way of learning and we are loving this way of life.

  • http://Www.gingerunzuetaphotography.com Ginger

    What amazing timing on this read. We have a 1 st grader, 4 year old and 1 year old and also a military family. We have been in prayer over this the past two years after our oldest started kindergarten. I ‘ve never had the feeling of “maybe we should try this ” go away. So after two years of this eating at me, we have decided to homeschool next fall. This will coincide with a PCS move so the timing should be perfect to try. I really feel God has called us as a family to do this. I wish you and your family all the best. Can’t wait to read your adventures!

  • Chastity

    I am going through this process right now and also in Virginia. My youngest child has dealt with a lot of health issues this year and has actually been home more than in school. I never really considered homeschooling until my son’s doctor suggested that we should homeschool him until we can get his health under control. We hope to start within the next couple of weeks…after a series of doctors appointments and possibly surgery are taken care of. Right now I plan on homeschooling just him but am researching the possiblity of homeschooling my daughter through her middle school years. I am also looking for more information about homeschooling. Good Luck and please continue to share your experience!

  • http://kristinmyoungphotography.com Kristin Young

    Welcome to the wonderful world of homeschooling! We have been at it for seven years now with five kids aged 11 years-6months. We are not a military family (although I am a military brat), but my husband is a college coach and the moving is equal to the military. It took me two years of debating to make the decision to do it but now that we are in it–I absolutely love it. We have decided to send our kids back to traditional high school when they reach that age, but so far it has been a wonderful way for us to travel (went on a year long RV trip), bond as a family, provides consistency for my kiddos with all our moving and has really helped me grow as a parent. And just to be fair though, there are days when I look longingly out the window as the yellow school bus goes whizzing by…but I still wouldn’t trade in this time with my kiddos for anything. I do write about some of our homeschooling days and life in general on my blog. Good Luck to you!!!

  • http://www.m-is-for-martha.blogspot.com martha brown

    I’m not a homeschooler, but a kindergarten teacher (in Canada)– lots of my friends have homeschooled though. I read lots of homeschool blogs too — to see what everyone is up to. I fully support decisions to homeschool :) I wish that all parents took such an interest in their child’s early schooling. My only advice would be to make sure that your children get lots of chances to play with other children! (organized support groups are great) One of my closest friends homeschooled her son until he was 8, and then he went into the regular school system and he spent the first few months sitting under his desk! (don’t worry — he’s 19 and fine now).

  • http://homegrownmosaic.blogspot.com Yvonne W

    Oh, the wonderful world of homeschooing. I love reading everyones reason for homeschooling. I guess I could call myself the reluctant homeschooler, but I’m glad we were ‘pushed’ to do it. My son and daughter are both on IEP’s for speech and every meeting became a battlefield. My good energy was being used in such a negative way that I had to stop and reflect. Reflect on why I was fighting with a system that is clearly broken. Why I was putting my children in an enviroment that could not and would not appreciate my children for their unique qualities and skills. And then I had an epiphany moment: Homeschool my babies. The skies cleared, the weight lifted, Angels started singing…..( you get the ideal, right) Honestly, it’s been the BEST decision we have made for our family. My kiddos are thriving and our so happy.

    We just go with the flow, but I make sure language art and math are done daily. We do workboxes( 6 each ) that has helped us tremendously. We read aloud, alone and together. We cuddle. We laugh. We have good days and bad days, but our worse day is nothing compared to an okay day at public school. Best of luck to you!!

  • http://www.capturedbyjess.com Captured by Jess

    Unschooling!
    Reclaim your life from curriculums, schedules and classrooms and just live with your kids! Really live. Joyfully and without coercion. :)
    Good luck!

    http://danielleconger.organiclearning.org/faqs.html

  • Ashley Bourgeois

    I have finally made the same decision. My son is in a Mother’s Day Out program three days a week. Though his evaluations have not yet been released we have decided that homeschool would be the best way to go through kindergarten since he is so young. His birthday is August 30th and here in Texas he has to be 5 by September 1st to start kindergarten, so he will quite literallly be the youngest in class. I have been doing research for over a year now and a great starting point for curriculum/method is Cathy Duffy. It helped me learn what I prefer, but also what learning style my son has. This will definitely be an adventure.

  • http://www.onbramblehill.com tisha

    You are going to love it! I never thought I would be a homeschooling mom but here I sit three years in :-) I will be at the Heav convention too! If you have the time be sure to check out the other Richmond Convention http://www.vahomeschoolers.org/conference/2011/ would love to meet up if you have a chance. We have a large group that will be going to both. It is so much fun each year to catch up with all the mom’s and help answer each others questions! :-)

  • http://Www.mossierose.com Katie Schomberg

    I am a homeschooling momma of three little dudes! We love it! It is really amazing the community you can find once you start looking! God is good…and he will bless you in ways you cannot imagine homeschooling your kids…it is a crazy…fantastic ride! Enjoy! Thanks for posting:)