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The scene is Sunday, 6 November 2011 at 6:15 AM, which, after the end of Daylight Savings’ Time, feels like a very reasonable 7:15 AM to at least one of the human characters in this scene.  To the other, it most assuredly does not as she had stayed up entirely too late the night before and is feeling anything but thankful as her morning is starting far earlier than she might have liked.

The cat, an 11-year-old black-and-white example of very rare feline patience, bounds in after Edgar as Samantha stares at the clock with nothing more than resignation.  She remains under the covers, hoping the very sight of how cozy she looks will entice her favorite six-year-old to join her for at least a quick snuggle.

Instead, Edgar and his cat perch on the window seat in front of the early morning light.  To Samantha, who is several feet away and sans her requisite eyeglasses, only their silhouettes are visible.  She watches and listens intently as they begin.

EDGAR.  Good morning, Dolores.  You look beautiful today.

[Dolores stares lovingly at Edgar, apparently basking in the compliment.]

EDGAR.  What do you want to do today, Dolores?

[Dolores does not respond.  She may not have thought that far ahead yet.]

EDGAR.  Dolores, why are you so soft?  [He pets her lovingly.]

[Dolores remains quiet but nuzzles her favorite boy.]

EDGAR.  Dolores, do you want to touch noses?  [He moves his face toward hers, touches her nose with his, and giggles.]  Dolores, your nose is cold!

The conversation continues much in this vein for at least another ten minutes.  By this time, Samantha is fully awake—and though she can’t see them well, she hears every word Edgar says.

The morning may have started off earlier than she had planned but it turned out better than she could ever have imagined.  And as she remained on her side, her attention riveted on the scene unfolding at the window, she realized she was thankful for all of it—for the early morning sunlight; for the uncomplaining, attentive cat; for her beautiful boy who can and always has been able to talk to the animals; and, yes, for the hour—because scenes such as this can rarely happen once the hustle and bustle of the day takes hold.

Here’s to beautiful scenes unfolding before your eyes and ears when you least expect them.  Happy Thanksgiving!

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[In the spirit of gratitude, I would like to share with you an opportunity I had recently to interview the National Adoption Coalition’s One Day Project spokesperson, Willie Garson, adoptive parent, perhaps best known for his role as Stanford Blatch in Sex and the City, and who currently stars as Mozzie in the new USA Network original series White Collar. Garson adopted his now 10-year-old son, Nathen, from the Los Angeles County foster care system in 2010, and I am grateful to be able to present to you his perspectives on adoption.  The interview will appear on my blog, My Three Sons (www.samanthahines.wordpress.com), next week.  If you would like to subscribe to My Three Sons, you will receive an email notification when the post is live.  Thanks for reading!

About Samantha


Samantha Hines lives with her husband, three sons, two dogs, and cat in Newport, RI, and is a high school English teacher (twenty-two years and running). In the last two years, she has had published three articles in Adoptive Families magazine; and her blog, “My Three Sons” was named by Adoptive Families as one of the Top Twenty Adoption Blogs on the internet. Her family was featured on SixSeeds, an online philanthropic magazine, in November 2010; and she is currently working on turning her blog into a book. You can follow “My Three Sons” on Facebook and her blog at www.samanthahines.wordpress.com.

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  • Rsiravo

    Samantha – thank you for capturing and sharing that intimate moment with Edgar. I wish more parents with take the moment to capture the essence of the moment….before it is too late.

    • http://www.samanthahines.wordpress.com Samantha

      It all goes so fast . . . It’s the only way I’ve been able to figure out how to slow it down a bit!

  • Ltrainor

    How wise you are to capture the intimate moment with words! Pictures and memories may fade, but words are with us forever.

    • http://www.samanthahines.wordpress.com Samantha

      Thanks, Liz! I am grateful for the opportunity to be able to share these stories.

  • Len DeAngelis

    Refreshing.
    Happy Thanksgiving!
    Peace,
    len

    • http://www.samanthahines.wordpress.com Samantha

      Thanks, Len!! Happy Thanksgiving to you, too!

  • Josie

    I love the bond between children and their pets, it is so precious… It makes me feel arm and fuzzy inside.

    • http://www.samanthahines.wordpress.com Samantha

      It is true–there is a special relationship between children and animals. Edgar loves them all!

  • Carol

    Your writing brings smiles to the reader. Thank you.

    • http://www.samanthahines.wordpress.com Samantha

      Thank you, Carol!!

  • Barbara Revaz

    Samantha is the best! She can bring her children’s experiences right into your home, with love, and understanding of how their little brains work. Edgar is blessed to have this loving heart which he shares with all, be they human or not.

    • http://www.samanthahines.wordpress.com Samantha

      Thank you, Barbara! Edgar does have an amazing heart, and I feel lucky that I can bask in it every day!

  • Leralt

    Love that…so sweet.

    • http://www.samanthahines.wordpress.com Samantha

      Thank you!!

  • Cleopatra

    Well put. Happy Thanksgiving!

    • http://www.samanthahines.wordpress.com Samantha

      Thank you! To you, too!!

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  • Twcoonrod

    A beautiful moment beautifully captured in beautiful words.

    • http://www.samanthahines.wordpress.com Samantha

      Thank you!

  • Sara Gray

    You captured such a beautiful moment. Happy Thanksgiving.

    • http://www.samanthahines.wordpress.com Samantha

      Thank you, Sara! Happy Thanksgiving to you, too!

  • Jess

    kids and pets…love it! Thanks for sharing your morning :)

    • http://www.samanthahines.wordpress.com Samantha

      Our pets LOVE the boys–and the feeling is mutual!

  • Kathi

    You captured the moment especially well. It touched my heart and soul. Kathi

    • http://www.samanthahines.wordpress.com Samantha

      Thank you, Kathi!

  • Tracey N

    Thank you for reminding me about the fleeting moments.

    Almost every morning C comes into our room and bed to ‘hatch’ into whatever creature he will be that day. Some days its a jelly fish, some a lobster, sometimes even a cat. How wonderful to begin each day anew as a totally new creature. Thank you for reminding me of how wonderful those strange early morning interactions are, and how fleeting! XOXO Tracey